signs of a weak-minded person

 

Some people are emotionally stronger than others and some are emotionally weaker than others. So what is it that makes these people strong-minded or weak-minded? What is it that makes these people strong personalities or weak personalities?

 

There are many differences between the two kinds of personalities. The first notable difference is that strong-minded people stay true to themselves at all times. While weak-minded people are always living their lives pleasing others. But hold on, there are more differences between them and we have listed these differences below:

 

1. You always seek validation from others

 

If you are someone who is always seeking external validation from others regarding your actions, decisions, and choices, it is a clear sign you are not confident enough in your own choices. 

 

We all sometimes seek external validation and it is perfectly natural to do so. But when it becomes your habit, it shows that you have some insecurities that are stemming from within. 

 

So if you are always fretting over what people think of you and whether they will approve of you or not, it is a strong sign that you are a weak-minded person. 

 

2.     You play the victim card

There are two kinds of people: those who have been a real victim of unfortunate events and experiences and those who always embrace a victim mentality. So, those people who are always playing the victim card to seek validation and sympathy or to prove any points are nothing but one of the signs of a weak-minded person. 

 

3.     You always soak in self-pity

You know what that self-pity is a choice and is one of the most potent signs of weak personalities. Involving in self-pity is awful and it can easily become a habit. The more you practice it, the more addictive it becomes. 

 

We all go through misfortune, and there is nothing strange in that. But if you obsess with your misfortune, and start engaging in self-pity it makes you weak at its best. 

 

It is certainly one of the strongest traits of weak-minded personalities. 

 

4.     You are jealous and envious of others

No one is perfect. You will always find someone better than you, more successful than you, stronger than you and healthier than you. So either you get inspired, or you get envious and jealous. There is no end to jealousy as it can be devastating. 

 

So, if you are someone who is jealous and envious, it shows you are insecure and not sure about yourself. And too much jealousy and envy indicate just one thing that you are a weak-minded person and that you need to let go of jealousy. 

 

Jealousy in a relationship is most often an indication of your weak personality, 

 

5.     You are not able to forgive others

One of the strongest virtues of strong-minded people is their ability to accept and move on by forgiving themselves, their past, and others. Forgiveness is not easy and comes only with patience and self-confidence. You need to be mentally strong and emotionally resilient to practice forgiveness. 

 

A person who is not able to forgive themselves, their past and others is definitely a weak-minded person. 

 

6.     You often blame others

Are you someone who always plays the pass the buck game and loves to shrug off the responsibilities or blame others for your own shortcomings? If yes, then you are definitely a weak-minded person. 

 

Strong-minded people often take charge of their lives and take responsibility for their own actions rather than blaming others for their actions. They focus on the solutions and overcoming a tough situation rather than blaming others for their actions.

 

7.     You have no goal

Strong-minded people have their life goals in place, and they motivate themselves by thriving to live those goals. But if you are someone who is always procrastinating or has no goals at all, then it is a strong sign that you are a weak-minded person. 

 

8.     You can't say no

Now, this is the biggest difference between a strong-minded person and a weak-minded person. Strong-minded people know when to say no and when to say yes. And they are very clear about it.

 

But a weak-minded person is just the opposite. A weak-minded person finds it very very difficult to say no and often says yes when they want to say no.