5 Signs that you need to know to let your relationships go!

 

People often cling to things for a long period than desired. If the workplace is toxic, people stay. If the family is toxic, people stay. And if the relationship becomes toxic, people stay. But is this a correct approach? You choose to stay in a place despite all the odds, only at the expense of one thing. And that thing is costing you your happiness. As they say, happiness is a choice, and you are giving up on your happiness by choosing to stay in the same old relationship or place that is doing nothing but the opposite. 

 

So, if you want to find your peace, respect and happiness back, you should know when to move on from a relationship. But what is stopping you from moving on? Here are the reasons:

• You fear being alone and you are not sure what the future holds for you. And as a result, you stick to your relationship even after so many odds.
• You are not confident of yourself and have low self-esteem. 
• You are defined by your relationship and do not have an independent identity of your own. 
• You are afraid of taking the next step and moving on. 

 

But when you surpass these things, long happiness awaits you. Sometimes the relationship can become too toxic to hold, and you do not realise what to do as you are not aware of the signs of when to let go of a relationship. So what are these signs? Read on below to find out:

 

1. You are not happy anymore

You were a happy person always. Your friends called you a merry-go-lucky kind of person. So what has changed now? Does this change happen after you entered a relationship? So if you find that you are often worrying, unhappy, or low and your gut feeling says to ghost the person you love and are living with, it is a clear sign that you want to break free and that you should move on. 

 

2.     You feel that your needs are not met by your partner

If you often feel that your needs are not met by your partner, or he or she doesn't care about your feelings, it can be really disturbing. So, if you feel unfulfilled, not cared for and want to feel love again with some other person, it is a clear indication that it is time to move on. 

 

3.     You are the only one giving in a relationship

Every relationship shall be made up of equals. Both the partners should come together and give each other respect, love, care and intimacy. But sometimes, it is also okay that one partner is more giving than the other partner. But if it is the way your relationship dynamics are and now you have started to feel resentful, it is not a good sign. If after your repeated attempts your partner is not budging, it is time to let go of this relationship in your best interest. 

 

4.     You do not feel respected

Respect is the foundation of all relationships, and if your partner doesn't value your opinion, thoughts, decisions and choices, it is a grave matter of concern. Respect shall not be compromised for anything. Not even your relationship. 

 

5.     Infidelity 

If you think your partner is not loyal to you and that infidelity has seeped into your relationship, it is better to let it go. And the same is applicable to you as well. If you are often tempted to cheat on your partner due to any reason, you should let it go. It is not all worth it. 

 

 

So, to conclude, I would like to say that happiness is the biggest goal of life and if your relationships are keeping you away from achieving that, then your should let them go!