When to let go of a relationship? 6 signs it is time to let go!

 

Letting go of someone is really painful. We invest a lot of time, money, energy and emotions in a relationship and the more invested we are, the harder it is to let go. The reasons can be manyfold. Letting go means fear of the unknown, fear of being alone, guilt, uncertainty, or lack of confidence, to name a few. But the result is the same. Living a life that seems unfulfilled, and unhappy. So when to let go of a relationship? Let's figure it out.

 There is a time when we need to let go of a relationship. But we are aware that it is time to move on and how to move on. Maybe we first want to work it out at first. But sometimes, ironing out the differences doesn't do justice to your happiness and peace of mind. The feeling of dissonance, differences and inconsistent behaviour surpass your behaviour to cling on. So how to cut the cords and know when to let go of a relationship?

 When to let go of a relationship? 6 Signs it is the time to move on

 Deciding to let go of someone your love and cutting ties with special someone, is one of the most challenging decisions. It is painful and draining. It blinds you and makes you bitter. But in the end, it helps you regain the right perspective in life and find peace for yourself. 

 Situations may differ for different people. If someone is married and has children, it is really tough to move on as the stakes are really high. But there are some universal signs in every relationship that hint that it is the time to move on. And here are a few signs:

 1 - Emotional and physical abuse

Whether it is your friend, family, spouse or partner, if someone is busing your either verbally and physically or emotionally, or gaslighting you or playing psychological games, it is a clear indication that it is time to move on. 

 So let not your spouse or anyone play around with your emotional and mental wellbeing, hurt your self-esteem or play you down. You need to take a stand for yourself and cut off the toxicity from your life. Let go of the toxic person from your life by knowing these signs of toxic people.

As long as you are in this abusive relationship, you will be abused and the abuser will take advantage of you. 

2 -     Infidelity, dishonesty, and deceit

There are certain deal-breakers in a relationship. For me, the deal-breakers are infidelity, cheating, lying, and dishonest behaviour. Marriages can survive such one-off incidences but if it is consistent behaviour, then it is a matter of grave concern. It is because it shows the person's character and integrity that can never change. 

 3 -      Contrasting fundamental values

When two people come from different cultures, backgrounds and families, their core values differ. And in such a scenario, a peaceful and supportive relationship is not guaranteed. 

 While some less close relationships like basic friendships can survive divergent core and fundamental values, love relationships are difficult to surpass such a hurdle. It is true in romantic relationships, where two people impact each other's life. 

 4 -      Toxic relationship

If your relationship is defined by consistent toxicity and daily clash, then you two are like oil and water. When your partner brings out the worst in you, and it is your daily life, it is a matter of concern. 

 So you have to determine if your relationship has become toxic? If yes, it is time to know how to deal with toxic people. So to regain your peace, your should let such people go. 

5 -      One-sided relationship

Ask yourself one question, if you are the only one putting in and investing in this relationship. And your partner never tries to make up for it and never invests in the relationship? Do you often find yourself cribbing always and your partner never reciprocate? These are the signs that your spouse or partner is selfish and self-centred. And you are tagging along with this relationship single-handedly. These are the signs that it is time to move on and find an equal partner.

 6 -      Consistent irresponsible behaviour

If you are in a relationship with someone who is always irresponsible, it will compromise your love for that person sooner or later. This consistent irresponsibility when comes to finance, children and other life matters can be seriously detrimental to your life. 

 

No matter how much you care for your partner, such inconsistent behaviour will ultimately put you off. And it will ultimately rip off your relationship.